When it comes to eloping, there are no strict rules especially when it comes to what you wear. Whether you're drawn to a modern suit, a flowing gown, or something entirely unique, the best outfit is one that feels like you.

At Elope Australia, we’ve helped hundreds of couples get married in beaches, forests, backyards and mountaintops. So we know a thing or two about what to wear and what to think about when planning your look for a small, meaningful ceremony.

Choose What Makes You Feel Good

Eloping gives you freedom, so start by choosing something that feels good on your body. Your outfit doesn’t need to be traditional, expensive or overly styled. What matters is that you feel comfortable, confident and present on your day.

That could be a classic suit or a relaxed linen set.
It might be a designer gown or something off the rack that moves with the breeze.

Consider the Location and Weather

Where and when you elope will influence what works best.

Outdoors in nature?
Choose breathable fabrics, shoes that can handle a bit of walking, and a style that suits the setting. If you're heading to the mountains or forest, layers are your friend especially during cooler months.

By the beach?
Go for lighter materials, shorter hems, or dresses with movement. Wind can be part of the charm, so avoid heavy veils or styles that need constant adjusting.

Urban or formal venue?
Lean into classic, polished styles or elegant tailoring. Heels and formal shoes can work well on flat surfaces, but always bring a more comfortable option too.

What About Shoes?

Trust us, your shoes can make or break the experience.

Choose comfort first especially if your ceremony includes walking to a lookout, climbing rocks, or standing in soft sand.
Think flats, sandals, boots, or even barefoot if the location suits.

Want to wear heels for photos? Pack them and slip them on just before.

Add Your Personality

Elopement outfits are a great place to bring your personality into the day. Think:

A statement jacket or hat
Jewellery with meaning
Colourful accessories
Bold lipstick or nail colour
An embroidered message or inside joke stitched into your clothing

For the Chillier Days

Winter elopements can be absolutely stunning, but keeping warm is key. Add warmth without losing style with:

Long coats or capes
Woollen suits or textured fabrics
Stylish scarves or gloves
Thermals underneath your outfit (no one will know)

Don’t Forget the Practical Bits

Have a small bag or pouch for touch-ups, tissues, or vows.
Bring a backup outfit in case of unexpected weather.
Pack safety pins, fashion tape, or a mini sewing kit just in case.

Final Thought

Your elopement look doesn’t need to be perfect it just needs to feel right for you. Whether you go all out or keep it simple, your wedding outfit should support the kind of day you want to have: relaxed, beautiful and true to who you are.

What to Wear for Your Elopement: Style, Comfort and What Matters Most